Many people feel anxious about attending a funeral: knowing what to wear, what to say and how to respectfully express sympathy to the grieving. You want to feel comfortable and relaxed when attending a funeral, not anxious about your clothing. Here are some basic guidelines for what to wear:

Funeral attire is traditionally all black, but dark or muted colors are also acceptable. Business attire, such as a dress or suit is sufficient for most funerals.

Women’s Attire at a Funeral

• Most women wear a dress or skirt to a funeral, although dress slacks are usually suitable. Shoulders should be covered, especially if the service is in a place of worship. Think practical when planning your wardrobe for a funeral. Consider the weather, the place and the type of funeral. Wear comfortable shoes and jacket if needed.
• The colors need to be professional and conservative. Black, grey, navy or neutral are safe. You don’t want to draw attention to yourself.

Men’s Attire at a Funeral

• Men generally wear suits when attending a funeral. Black is best, however, grey and navy are also acceptable with a white shirt and tie.

Children’s Attire at a Funeral

The rules aren’t so rigid when it comes to children.

• Little boys should wear dark colors, preferably a suit. Try to avoid jeans, tennis shoes or casual attire.
• Little Girls can wear dresses or skirts in dark or neutral colors.

Tags: Funeral Etiquette

This entry was posted on Tuesday, June 28th, 2011 at 8:00 am.